{"id":22441,"date":"2019-06-06T15:50:41","date_gmt":"2019-06-06T15:50:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dinnews.in\/?p=22441"},"modified":"2019-06-06T15:50:41","modified_gmt":"2019-06-06T15:50:41","slug":"ive-had-my-self-destructive-heartbreak-moments-shahid-kapoor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/?p=22441","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;ve had my self destructive heartbreak moments: Shahid Kapoor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Shahid Kapoor says he has gone through his share of &#8220;intense self destruction&#8221; after a heartbreak and one way of overcoming negative emotions for him was to channelise them into his performances.In his latest, &#8220;Kabir Singh&#8221;, Shahid plays a surgeon who descends into self-destruction after a heartbreak.\u00a0&#8220;I&#8217;ve had my very intense, self destructive, heartbreak, angsty moments, where I&#8217;ve not been in control,&#8221; Shahid told DIN.\u00a0Describing &#8220;Kabir Singh&#8221; as a phase in everyone&#8217;s life, the actor says some people are &#8220;very explosive about how they&#8217;re feeling&#8221; while others keep it within.&#8221;\u00a0&#8220;But that feeling of falling apart, of self destruction for not being able to deal with loss&#8230; Only from great love can come great anger. He is a phase in everyone&#8217;s life and that how I connected with the character.&#8221;<br \/>\nShahid says as an actor, he is required to channelise negative emotions, including heartbreak.\u00a0&#8220;You have to channelise all kinds of negative emotions and turn them into positive, otherwise they can take you down, heartbreak being one of them. You&#8217;ve to learn to channelise these energies, if you can&#8217;t, you become Kabir Singh!&#8221;\u00a0The &#8220;Haider&#8221; actor says everybody breaks at some point but it&#8217;s one&#8217;s call to choose that to &#8220;define that moment as your permanent reality.&#8221;\u00a0&#8220;The worst thing to do is to delve in self pity because it keeps you in a place way longer than you need to be. The first thing I do is to try and run away from it. I don&#8217;t like to indulge in self pity, it&#8217;s very dangerous.&#8221;\u00a0While the 38-year-old has often played dark characters, Kabir Singh is an obviously flawed man, the one with anger and territorial issues.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shahid Kapoor says he has gone through his share of &#8220;intense self destruction&#8221; after a heartbreak and one way of overcoming negative emotions for him was to channelise them into his performances.In his latest, &#8220;Kabir Singh&#8221;, Shahid plays a surgeon who descends into self-destruction after a heartbreak.\u00a0&#8220;I&#8217;ve had my very intense, self destructive, heartbreak, angsty moments, where I&#8217;ve not been in control,&#8221; Shahid told DIN.\u00a0Describing &#8220;Kabir Singh&#8221; as a phase in everyone&#8217;s life, the actor says some people are &#8220;very explosive about how they&#8217;re feeling&#8221; while others keep it within.&#8221;\u00a0&#8220;But&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22443,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[9,4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22441"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=22441"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22441\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22445,"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22441\/revisions\/22445"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22443"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=22441"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=22441"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dinnews.in\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=22441"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}